This VN had NO RIGHT to make me go and cry like that dammit....but it did.
So thank you.
Could be that I misread something somewhere then, mentioned something about we as the MC having "breasts" at some point for me and then there was a conversation between myself and Vul that seemed to have insinuated heavily my character was female.
I'll keep on going through for right now and try to pick out any more solid evidence I can find